Sylvia Lafair

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The Upside and Downside of Being a Mother

By Sylvia Lafair | May 9, 2024 | Comments Off on The Upside and Downside of Being a Mother

Summary: Being a mother is one of the most profound experiences a woman can have. It’s a journey with highs and lows, laughter and tears. Ultimately, it can be incredibly rewarding. Let’s look at the joys and challenges faced. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I am a working mom and I usually cringe with all the “sappy”…

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Navigating the Motherly Role: How it Translates in the Workplace

By Sylvia Lafair | May 7, 2024 | Comments Off on Navigating the Motherly Role: How it Translates in the Workplace

Summary: The role of a mother holds a place of paramount importance. First, there is nurturing and guiding in the family. Then there are significant manifestations in the workplace. Here we unravel the myriad ways in which the essence of motherhood permeates professional spheres. Dear Dr Sylvia, In your Total Leadership Connections Program you talk…

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Leveraging Systems Theory to Resolve Workplace Conflicts

By Sylvia Lafair | May 2, 2024 | Comments Off on Leveraging Systems Theory to Resolve Workplace Conflicts

Summary: We all know that conflicts are inevitable. Whether they arise from differences in opinion, conflicting goals, or misunderstandings, these disputes can impede productivity and damage working relationships. However, by adopting a systems theory approach, organizations can navigate these challenges more effectively. This fosters collaboration and harmony among team members. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I am…

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Breaking Through Negativity: How Leaders Can Spark Positive Change in the Workplace

By Sylvia Lafair | April 30, 2024 | Comments Off on Breaking Through Negativity: How Leaders Can Spark Positive Change in the Workplace

Summary: Whether it’s bad news or the challenges of everyday life, negativity can seep into our minds and workplaces. This impacts morale, productivity, and overall well-being. However, amidst the darkness, there are beacons of light. Leaders who possess the vision, empathy, and determination to foster positivity drive change. Be a beacon! Dear Dr. Sylvia, I…

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The Pursuit of Happiness: Unraveling the Truth Behind Our Obsession

By Sylvia Lafair | April 26, 2024 | Comments Off on The Pursuit of Happiness: Unraveling the Truth Behind Our Obsession

Summary: From self-help books to social media influencers, the pursuit of happiness is everywhere. We’re bombarded with messages that suggest happiness is not only achievable but also mandatory for a fulfilling life. But is our obsession with being happy truly warranted? And what is the real truth behind this relentless pursuit? Dear Dr. Sylvia, I…

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Pay Attention to What Makes YOU Happy

By Sylvia Lafair | April 23, 2024 | Comments Off on Pay Attention to What Makes YOU Happy

Dear Dr. Sylvia, I want to become a “glimmer gatherer.” You seem to be on a roll with fun ideas on how to follow your heart and also be successful. Please let me know what led you to this direction? I am at a crossroad in my career and need some new ideas as I…

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Cultivating Trust: Nurturing Boundaries That Keep Individuals and Teams Feeling Safe

By Sylvia Lafair | April 17, 2024 | Comments Off on Cultivating Trust: Nurturing Boundaries That Keep Individuals and Teams Feeling Safe

Summary: In any environment, whether it’s a workplace, a community group, or even within a family, trust is the cornerstone of healthy relationships and effective collaboration. It’s the invisible thread that weaves through every interaction, binding individuals together in mutual respect and understanding. However, cultivating trust is not a one-time task; it’s an ongoing process…

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Crafting Compelling Personal Narratives in the Business World

By Sylvia Lafair | April 15, 2024 | Comments Off on Crafting Compelling Personal Narratives in the Business World

Summary: The art of storytelling can be a powerful tool in the business world. When done properly, story fosters connections, inspires action, and conveys complex ideas. Personal narratives, in particular, have the ability to humanize business interactions, making them more relatable and memorable. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I recently told a personal story at a work…

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Nurturing Personal and Organizational Health: A Systems Thinking Approach to Dealing with a “Bully Boss”

By Sylvia Lafair | April 11, 2024 | Comments Off on Nurturing Personal and Organizational Health: A Systems Thinking Approach to Dealing with a “Bully Boss”

Summary: In today’s workplace, the behavior of senior leaders plays a pivotal role in shaping organizational culture and employee well-being. Challenges often arise when dealing with a “bully boss,” whose strong-willed nature can create a toxic environment. Adopting a systems thinking approach, which emphasizes understanding the interconnectedness of various elements within a system, along with…

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Leadership Lessons from Solar Eclipses: Embracing Change and Vision

By Sylvia Lafair | April 8, 2024 | Comments Off on Leadership Lessons from Solar Eclipses: Embracing Change and Vision

Summary: Millions of people were mesmerized by the solar eclipse. With its awe-inspiring beauty and profound symbolism, it is more than just a celestial spectacle. Just as the moon momentarily obscures the sun, leaders often face challenges that dim their vision or obscure their path. By reflecting on the phenomenon of eclipses, each of us…

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