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Leadership Unleashed: Unraveling the Power of Old Habit Patterns in Leadership

By Sylvia Lafair | September 11, 2023

Summary: Read the award-winning book “Don’t Bring It To Work” and complete the companion online program “Total Leadership Connections” for profound insights and practical strategies to revolutionize leadership development and collaboration within your organization.Dear Dr. Sylvia,I want to thank you.I was drowning by putting in twelve-hour days. Finally, after two weeks, my mind shut down,…

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Systems Thinking Is A Superpower

By Sylvia Lafair | September 7, 2023

Summary: Here is your gateway to unlocking the profound and transformative world of systems thinking. Interconnectedness is the rule rather than the exception. Thus, the ability to think systematically is a superpower. Here is your roadmap to mastering this indispensable skill. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I am frustrated. For example, it takes time and tons of…

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What is “Eggshell Leadership?” And What To Do About It

By Sylvia Lafair | August 30, 2023

Summary: When you have a leader with unpredictable moods, many employees feel their organization is like a roller coaster without a stop button. Here are some methods to reduce tension and exhaustion and create psychological safety. Dear Dr. Sylvia, Whenever I meet with my boss, I get a queasy feeling in my stomach. My work…

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Unlocking Leadership Excellence: A Review of “Don’t Bring It To Work”

By Sylvia Lafair | August 28, 2023

Summary: The way OUT of conflict and failed relationships at work begins with inner clarity. Phrases like emotional intelligence, high-performing team, and innovative leadership emphasize this book’s relevance in the fast-evolving business world. Dear Dr Sylvia, Many of my colleagues love your book, “Don’t Bring It To Work.” I am curious why they tell me…

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Is Happiness Oversold? Here’s What Truly Matters for Business Executives and Emerging Leaders

By Sylvia Lafair | August 23, 2023

Summary: Messages bombard us that suggest happiness is life’s ultimate goal. That achieving it should be our top priority. Happiness is undoubtedly valuable. Yet, we oversell it in our culture. Here I explore the idea that other essential aspects of life deserve attention, particularly for those navigating the complex terrain of the business world. Dear…

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Here’s why Taylor Swift is the perfect icon of a GUTSY WOMEN LEADER

By Sylvia Lafair | August 16, 2023

Summary: My book, “GUTSY: How Women Leaders Make Change,” emphasizes the importance of authenticity, resilience, adaptability, and vulnerability. Here’s how Taylor Swift includes these teachings and connects with the principles outlined in the book. Dear Dr. Sylvia, My city, Los Angeles, has been a hub of Taylor Swift performances. Firstly, I know she is a…

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10 reasons Why Parents MUST Be in Charge of Stress Management at Home

By Sylvia Lafair | August 14, 2023

Summary: Parents who see the advantage of learning to keep stress in “the safe stress zone” can then take proactive steps to reduce stress at home and teach their children better-coping mechanisms. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I need a more effective way to handle the conflicts and yelling at home. My children are fine and fun…

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The Power of Storytelling in Leadership: Building Stronger Relationships at Work

By Sylvia Lafair | August 8, 2023

Summary: Storytelling is one of the most effective ways to connect with employees and foster a positive work environment. Here we explore why leaders should tell their stories first when engaging with employees. This practice can dramatically improve relationships at work. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I was in a difficult meeting with one of my Senior…

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Charles Barkley’s Remarkable Revelation: A Leader’s Journey of Forgiveness and Redemption

By Sylvia Lafair | August 2, 2023

Summary: In a candid interview on the CBS 60 Minutes program, legendary NBA player Charles Barkley shared a deeply personal story. Barkley’s emotional journey transformed his perspective on pivotal figures from his past and taught valuable lessons. Here we explore how Barkley’s experience offers profound insights for leaders to harness in their growth and development…

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Mastering Critical Thinking: A Guide for Leaders

By Sylvia Lafair | July 26, 2023

Summary: Critical thinking is a fundamental skill for effective leadership. Top leaders think clearly and rationally, analyze and evaluate information, and make sound judgments and decisions. Here is what to know, what matters. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I am a great leader. I’m not bragging. I know what I know. For example, I am great at…

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Understanding the Impact of Stress on Parents

By Sylvia Lafair | July 25, 2023

Summary: There are profound effects of stress on parents. Through enlightening stories and insightful quotes, I aim to provide a comprehensive understanding of stress and its consequences, empowering parents to take control of their well-being. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I do not want to look back on my career as a leader at work and as…

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Parents as Leaders: 10 Reasons Parents MUST Learn to Handle Stress at Home

By Sylvia Lafair | July 18, 2023

Summary: Stress responses are first learned at home. Parents, as leaders, are the first ones who can make a difference. Here are some ways to rethink your methods for getting into “the safe stress zone.” Dear Dr. Sylvia, The world, these days, is filled with extremes. There is either too much of something or too…

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