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Transforming Mindsets through Systems Thinking: The Way to Better Work Relationships

By Sylvia Lafair | November 1, 2023

Summary: In a world fraught with division and conflict, the power of systems thinking can be a beacon of hope for transforming negative mindsets and forging connections. Here, I will explore the concept of systems thinking and its application in problem-solving. I am adding a compelling story that showcases how it can alter our perceptions…

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Invisible Loyalties: Why Generational Patterns Continue Over and Over

By Sylvia Lafair | October 31, 2023

Summary: Generational issues have been an enduring facet of human society, seemingly immortal in their persistence. Time and again, we see rifts between generations, each believing their perspective is superior, their values paramount. To explore why these issues don’t go away, we’ll delve into the depths of human nature, psychological underpinnings, and cultural shifts. Dear…

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Game Theory and Conflict: Unraveling the Prisoner’s Dilemma

By Sylvia Lafair | October 25, 2023

Summary: Game theory is a field in mathematics and economics. It has proven to be a valuable tool for understanding complex conflicts and strategic interactions. We apply “The Prisoner’s Dilemma” to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. It sheds light on the challenges and potential solutions in this ongoing struggle for peace. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I know the…

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Vengeance Is Not a Strategy; Here’s What Makes a Difference

By Sylvia Lafair | October 23, 2023

Summary: In the annals of history, countless tales of vengeance and retribution have captured our imagination. From ancient feuds to epic battles and cinematic showdowns, the desire for payback has always been a compelling human narrative. Here is what makes the real difference. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I was thinking about you today. I was thinking…

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How The Art of Pattern Recognition Increases the Bottom Line

By Sylvia Lafair | October 16, 2023

Summary: At the heart of “Systems Thinking” lies the art of pattern recognition. Let’s explore its secrets through two captivating stories of individuals who harnessed the power of pattern recognition to achieve remarkable success. Dear Dr. Sylvia, “I agree!” “To what?” you ask. “To the fact that patterns will repeat and repeat unless you take…

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What We Can Learn From The Dark Psychology of War

By Sylvia Lafair | October 16, 2023

Dear All, Today, I, once again, enter the darkness of what is happening in Israel and Palestine. In addition, it brings back memories of a time that seems a million years ago (actually twenty-one). That was when a group of my colleagues and I created The Center for Intercultural Dialogue. We were doing deep work…

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Discover the Intriguing Link Between Elon Musk’s Twitter Activity and His Family Legacy

By Sylvia Lafair | October 11, 2023

Summary: The connection between Elon Musk’s actions on Twitter and his family history is fascinating. Here, we delve into the captivating tale of his maternal grandfather, who embraced the symbol “X” in his life. It is no accident that Twitter is now X. As you read, you may uncover a newfound perspective on your own…

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When the Winds of War Are Strong

By Sylvia Lafair | October 10, 2023

Summary: Today is meant to be different. It is about today’s world’s pain, hurt, and fear. And one way to make a difference, no matter how small. Dear All, Today is a tough day. Above all, we continue to get more information from the Middle East. It’s mainly about the vast number of humans, from…

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Systems Thinking in Organizations: The Holistic Wave of the Future

By Sylvia Lafair | October 4, 2023

Summary: In modern businesses, traditional linear approaches to problem-solving and decision-making often fall short. Organizations now turn to a holistic and strategic approach called “systems thinking.” It can lead to improved organizational performance, innovation, and adaptability. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I especially love to learn about how we learn to make decisions. At this point in…

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“Don’t Bring It to Work” is a Game-changer for Mental Health in the Workplace

By Sylvia Lafair | October 2, 2023

Summary: This book is a powerful guide that transforms how we approach our professional lives and enhances our growth journey. It’s all connected. Dear Dr. Sylvia, Your book, “Don’t Bring It To Work,” has helped me interact more effectively with staff. We use it at our numerous salons in the New Orleans area. For this…

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Developing Systems Thinking Competencies

By Sylvia Lafair | September 27, 2023

Summary: Here, we develop competencies for effective systems thinking. Let’s explore these competencies using stories that illustrate their significance. Dear Dr. Sylvia, Is there a specific order for learning about Systems Thinking and Pattern Aware Leadership (PAL) methods? I am a senior VP at a well-known cosmetics company. Sales are saggy, like an older woman’s…

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Nurturing Success: Ways to Foster Effective Group Dynamics in Your Team

By Sylvia Lafair | September 25, 2023

Summary: Successful group dynamics are the bedrock for high-performing teams. Here are critical strategies to transform a group into a cohesive and productive team, from communication and trust-building to conflict resolution and goal alignment. Dear Dr. Sylvia, Firstly, I know effective group dynamics are essential for any team striving to achieve its goals. A team…

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