Sylvia Lafair

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What Educators, Health Providers, Entrepreneurs Must Know About Change Management Initiatives

By Sylvia Lafair | March 15, 2023 | Comments Off on What Educators, Health Providers, Entrepreneurs Must Know About Change Management Initiatives

Summary: Change is stressful. Yet, knowing how to manage it is foundational for leadership growth and development. All leaders, in health care, education, and entrepreneurs must help the rest of the organization make friends with change. As we say — give change a chance. Do you worry when change is right in front of you?…

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Here’s What to Do About the Stress of Constant Change

By Sylvia Lafair | March 8, 2023 | Comments Off on Here’s What to Do About the Stress of Constant Change

Summary:  Change is happening at an escalated pace. The stress of constant change makes it the #1 health concern worldwide. Here’s what you need to know to keep from falling down the rabbit hole of anxiety and depression. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I read that the primary sources of social change include population growth, climate change,…

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Here’s What It Takes To Become Conflict Competent

By Sylvia Lafair | March 1, 2023 | Comments Off on Here’s What It Takes To Become Conflict Competent

Summary: How much time do you spend angry and upset with your colleagues, friends, or family? It’s time to learn the skills of being conflict competent. That means you have the right communication system to speak and be heard. More than that, you lead others to solutions that benefit all. Dear Dr. Sylvia, Everyone seems…

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Salon Speak: Small Talk, Deep Talk, or No Talk, Which is Best?

By Sylvia Lafair | February 27, 2023 | Comments Off on Salon Speak: Small Talk, Deep Talk, or No Talk, Which is Best?

Summary: Every time a client sits in your chair and faces the mirror with you standing behind, a choice occurs. Chat, joke, get personal, or “let it be.” How do you know what the best idea is? First, think about what you, the stylist, prefer when it’s your turn to sit in the chair rather…

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How to Banish the GOTCHA GAME at Work

By Sylvia Lafair | February 22, 2023 | Comments Off on How to Banish the GOTCHA GAME at Work

Summary: Love it or hate it; it won’t go away. Not those extra 10 pounds! I’m talking about conflict. Those annoying times when you are at odds with someone when you are pissed off with a client, supplier, staff, or even your best friend. Dear Dr. Sylvia, Is it me? Or is the world becoming…

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Here’s How Educators Can Stop Excessive Conflict in Schools

By Sylvia Lafair | February 20, 2023 | Comments Off on Here’s How Educators Can Stop Excessive Conflict in Schools

Summary: In every work setting, especially in schools, there is a time when individuals throw up their hands and ask, “Why can’t we all just get along!” Here are tools and techniques that answer this question and create a more efficient, collaborative culture for educators. Dear Dr. Sylvia. Why does conflict run rampant in today’s…

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During Layoffs Here’s How Leaders Can Be “Pattern Pioneers” For Long-Term Success

By Sylvia Lafair | February 15, 2023 | Comments Off on During Layoffs Here’s How Leaders Can Be “Pattern Pioneers” For Long-Term Success

Summary: Pioneers are typically free-thinking, adventurous, spontaneous, and highly creative. Leaders who sort out the difference between a work problem and an ongoing work pattern can lead their companies to long-term success. Dear Dr. Sylvia, My organization is going through the pain of layoffs. I know we are not alone here. However, that does not lessen…

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Give the Gift of a Healthy Laugh This Valentine’s Day

By Sylvia Lafair | February 13, 2023 | Comments Off on Give the Gift of a Healthy Laugh This Valentine’s Day

Summary: Roses, chocolate, and Hallmark cards have always been the standards to express love for someone special. Here’s a way that is inexpensive and has a lasting impact. Want to give your honey a great gift for Valentine’s Day? One that is virtually cost-free and has a super health benefit? At the same time, it’s…

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What Smart Leaders Learn From The Super Bowl

By Sylvia Lafair | February 10, 2023 | Comments Off on What Smart Leaders Learn From The Super Bowl

Summary: Watching the Super Bowl, cheerin’g for your favorite team, snacking, and connecting with friends can be fun. Also, pay attention to what you learn even if you never have to tackle an opponent to the ground. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I know it is popular to have a business coach these days. That, so they…

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Peace Tools NOT Pistols: In Honor of Tyre Nichols, (1993-2023)

By Sylvia Lafair | February 3, 2023 | Comments Off on Peace Tools NOT Pistols: In Honor of Tyre Nichols, (1993-2023)

Summary: Is there such a thing as a “peace tool?” Read on and see how you can help turn the tide of our divided world. No matter your physical, economic, or intellectual status, there is room for you to participate. Peace tools are waiting for you to claim them. Dear All, Tyre Nichols was killed…

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