Sylvia Lafair

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Here’s How Educators Can Stop Excessive Conflict in Schools

By Sylvia Lafair | February 20, 2023 | Comments Off on Here’s How Educators Can Stop Excessive Conflict in Schools

Summary: In every work setting, especially in schools, there is a time when individuals throw up their hands and ask, “Why can’t we all just get along!” Here are tools and techniques that answer this question and create a more efficient, collaborative culture for educators. Dear Dr. Sylvia. Why does conflict run rampant in today’s…

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During Layoffs Here’s How Leaders Can Be “Pattern Pioneers” For Long-Term Success

By Sylvia Lafair | February 15, 2023 | Comments Off on During Layoffs Here’s How Leaders Can Be “Pattern Pioneers” For Long-Term Success

Summary: Pioneers are typically free-thinking, adventurous, spontaneous, and highly creative. Leaders who sort out the difference between a work problem and an ongoing work pattern can lead their companies to long-term success. Dear Dr. Sylvia, My organization is going through the pain of layoffs. I know we are not alone here. However, that does not lessen…

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Give the Gift of a Healthy Laugh This Valentine’s Day

By Sylvia Lafair | February 13, 2023 | Comments Off on Give the Gift of a Healthy Laugh This Valentine’s Day

Summary: Roses, chocolate, and Hallmark cards have always been the standards to express love for someone special. Here’s a way that is inexpensive and has a lasting impact. Want to give your honey a great gift for Valentine’s Day? One that is virtually cost-free and has a super health benefit? At the same time, it’s…

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What Smart Leaders Learn From The Super Bowl

By Sylvia Lafair | February 10, 2023 | Comments Off on What Smart Leaders Learn From The Super Bowl

Summary: Watching the Super Bowl, cheerin’g for your favorite team, snacking, and connecting with friends can be fun. Also, pay attention to what you learn even if you never have to tackle an opponent to the ground. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I know it is popular to have a business coach these days. That, so they…

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Peace Tools NOT Pistols: In Honor of Tyre Nichols, (1993-2023)

By Sylvia Lafair | February 3, 2023 | Comments Off on Peace Tools NOT Pistols: In Honor of Tyre Nichols, (1993-2023)

Summary: Is there such a thing as a “peace tool?” Read on and see how you can help turn the tide of our divided world. No matter your physical, economic, or intellectual status, there is room for you to participate. Peace tools are waiting for you to claim them. Dear All, Tyre Nichols was killed…

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Leadership Tips: Here are 2 Words To Avoid At Work, at Home, and Everywhere

By Sylvia Lafair | February 1, 2023 | Comments Off on Leadership Tips: Here are 2 Words To Avoid At Work, at Home, and Everywhere

Summary: Words are powerful. Some can lead you to success. Others will get in the way and keep you stuck in old, outdated behavior patterns. Be careful of the two vital words discussed here. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I resolved to communicate more effectively this year. Time is moving quickly, and I still feel I will…

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Leadership Lessons: Telling the Truth Is NOT Spilling Your GUTS

By Sylvia Lafair | January 24, 2023 | Comments Off on Leadership Lessons: Telling the Truth Is NOT Spilling Your GUTS

Summary: Truth and freedom are roommates who depend on each other to help us live fully engaged and positive lives. Here are ways to investigate the power of truth. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I recently read excerpts from “The Spare “by Prince Harry, and all I could think of was a line from Stephen Sondheim’s powerful…

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Leadership Lessons: What Matters When You Tell The Truth

By Sylvia Lafair | January 19, 2023 | Comments Off on Leadership Lessons: What Matters When You Tell The Truth

Summary: In this era of social media excess, where everyone can offer their version of what is truth without fact-checking, it’s time for critical thinking to stop the dysfunction of speaking without considering the consequences of our words. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I have a question for you. Question: How many business coaches does it take…

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Influential Leaders Practice Safe Stress

By Sylvia Lafair | January 13, 2023 | Comments Off on Influential Leaders Practice Safe Stress

Summary: The beginning of each new year offers unique possibilities for growth and health. At the core, it is mostly about attitude. Here are some tips on navigating your world to make it special. Dear Dr. Sylvia, The new year has not been friendly to me. To clarify, I live in what used to be…

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How to Leap into the New Year and Let Your Dreams Take Flight

By Sylvia Lafair | December 27, 2022 | Comments Off on How to Leap into the New Year and Let Your Dreams Take Flight

Summary: This is a great time to think about how you want to advance your career and your relationships. Go ahead, take a leap of faith. Here’s what to do.  Dear ….  Did you know that at least 50% of adults make new year’s resolutions?  Mostly they are about more exercise, less weight, healthier eating,…

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