Diversity

Honoring Bess Wohl and “Liberation,” the 2026 Pulitzer Prize-Winning Play

By Sylvia Lafair | November 5, 2026 |

Summary: What a Pulitzer Prize-winning play at Berkeley Rep reveals about women’s liberation, family patterns, and the unfinished business of change. I recently attended a performance of Liberation at the Berkeley Repertory Theatre, and it brought back memories of the women’s movement in the 1970s. Yes, I was a part of those days, honoring Gloria…

Winners and Losers: When the World Shifts

By Sylvia Lafair | November 3, 2026 |

Summary: Why disruption brings out our oldest behaviors, and how to turn uncertainty into a GLIMMER. Dear Dr. Sylvia, Have you noticed how differently people respond when the world suddenly feels uncertain? My son-in-law, who was a “shew-in” for a relatively minor public office, now looks like he will lose the vote for a job…

The Leadership Test America Needs Before Election Day: What John McCain Taught Us About Courage, Character, and the Danger of Blind Loyalty

By Sylvia Lafair | October 30, 2026 |

Summary: I recently received an email from a client that speaks to the tension we are all feeling these days. Here is the essence of it: I am exhausted by the anger surrounding this election. Friends no longer speak to one another. Even at work, people are careful about what they say because one wrong…

Leaders Initiative: What If Polarized Times Are the Beginning of a New Renaissance?

By Sylvia Lafair | October 1, 2026 |

Summary: It’s easy to look at the world right now and only see division. Political polarization. Wars. Cultural battles. Anxiety about artificial intelligence. Generations arguing over what matters most. People choosing sides before they’ve even finished listening to each other. We keep asking, “How did things get this bad?” I wonder if there is another…

When Every Choice Costs You Something: The Ed Sheeran Leadership Lesson

By Sylvia Lafair | September 29, 2026 |

Summary: What do you do when no choice feels comfortable? Ed Sheeran found out very publicly. Read on for my thoughts on what to do when you’re caught between a rock and a hard place. Dear Dr. Sylvia, There is so much polarization in our world right now; we can’t even go to a concert…

Just Wait—The Magic May Already Be Happening

By Sylvia Lafair | September 22, 2026 |

Summary: What if the employee who keeps reverting to old behaviors isn’t failing to change, but is actually showing the first signs of transformation? Discover how recognizing the small GLIMMERS of progress can help leaders balance accountability with patience, avoid triggering old patterns, and allow space for meaningful growth to take hold. Dear Dr. Sylvia,…

Follow the GLIMMER: How Gloria Steinem Noticed What the World Couldn’t See

By Sylvia Lafair | September 17, 2026 |

Summary: What if the things that bother you most are actually trying to get your attention? Gloria Steinem’s life offers a powerful reminder that change often begins with a GLIMMER—a question, contradiction, or moment that makes you stop and wonder why things are the way they are. Discover what happens when you pay attention to…

Dolly Parton and the GLIMMERS Glow™: Why Being Real Matters

By Sylvia Lafair | August 27, 2026 |

Summary: Dolly Parton has spent a lifetime covered in rhinestones. Yet somehow, she has never appeared to hide behind them. That may be one of the most remarkable things about her. In a culture fascinated by status, image, followers, titles, money, and the carefully polished version of ourselves we present to the world, Dolly Parton…

What Oprah Winfrey Learned From a Bad Boss: When Rejection Becomes a GLIMMER

By Sylvia Lafair | August 20, 2026 |

Summary: What if one of the worst moments in your career actually pointed you toward the work you were meant to do? Long before Oprah Winfrey became Oprah, she was a 22-year-old television journalist who moved to Baltimore to co-anchor the evening news at WJZ-TV. Oprah has written and spoken openly about those early years.…

How to Deal With a Toxic Boss: Stop Labeling the Person and Start Looking at the Pattern

By Sylvia Lafair | August 18, 2026 |

Summary: You know the feeling. Your boss walks into the meeting, and your stomach tightens. Or perhaps you have an idea, but you hesitate before speaking. Tension comes in many flavors, from yelling and passive-aggressive comments to the silent treatment. Eventually, someone says the words everyone has been thinking: “We have a toxic boss.” Maybe…