Leadership

How good are you are telling the truth?

By Sylvia Lafair | October 23, 2018 |

How good are you are telling the truth? Think about it for a minute. Where do you hold back to be polite? Or when do you shrug and say “Whatever†rather than let your underlying feelings out? Telling truth to power is not for wimps. It takes great courage to stay strong and speak out.…

What Do Women and Men Want?

By Sylvia Lafair | October 2, 2018 |

Here is an excellent response to my question, “What do women want†and “What do men want.†Please read this thoughtful comment and then my answer. We are all living in such interesting times and need to keep talking and getting to the core. That’s where change really happens. Dear Sylvia, Nice one about men…

Leadership: Being a Change Maker

By Sylvia Lafair | September 25, 2018 |

If you are interested in being a change maker, read on. If not, well, take a break, get some danish and coffee and chill. You see, I think the world is divided into doers and escapers. Doers will speak up to be heard and find ways to rattle the chains of old behavior patterns till…

Take a Different View of Leadership: Look at World Events

By Sylvia Lafair | September 12, 2018 |

Today, I’d like to take a different perspective on leadership. It’s about you and you and you and me. It’s about how to bring our voices into the conversation and how we each can play an important role, regardless of our circumstances. My husband Herb and I recently returned from Madrid and Bilbao Spain. This…

How Do I Know I’m Doing Great?

By Sylvia Lafair | August 14, 2018 |

When was the last time you asked yourself…How do I know if I’m doing great? Do you love getting report cards? If the answer is “yes’ I bet, you were a super student from kindergarten straight through your school days. For some who are averse to tracking success, well, it really does need to be…

Building Trustworthy Relationships at Work

By Sylvia Lafair | August 1, 2018 |

I recently worked with a client and the questions he had were around building trustworthy relationships at work which got me thinking… Who do you trust? And more importantly, why do you trust one person and not another? Like love, trust is amorphous. You can’t touch it, smell it or see it. Yet, most of…

Generosity at Work

By Sylvia Lafair | July 17, 2018 |

Generosity at work has so many possibilities. You know, doing something nice for people makes them appreciate you and it makes you feel good. Everybody wins. You are happier and they are happier. I received an email that sums up the benefits of being generous that I want to pass on to all of you.…

The Ultimate Guide: Leadership Skills to Strengthen the Bottom Line and Connect Teams for Success.

By Sylvia Lafair | July 10, 2018 |

The Ultimate Guide to Leadership Skills: 5 Skills That Strengthen the Bottom Line Summary: Leadership has taken some nasty hits in the last few years. High-profile leaders are here today and gone tomorrow. Initially holding promise, they disappoint and disappear. Here is what is needed for modern leadership training. Dear Dr. Sylvia, We have gone…

How to become the leader of choice

By Sylvia Lafair | June 20, 2018 |

How do I become the leader of choice? I have received so many e-mails lately from many talented leaders expressing their desire to become “the leader everyone wants to work with,†to become a leader of choice. I have spent so much time researching to find the formula for leaders to really make a huge…

Here’s How to Avoid the 5 Basic Mistakes That Create Job Stress

By Sylvia Lafair | May 31, 2018 |

Do you ever just wish that you could have a moratorium on change? That maybe, just for a month you could count on things staying the same? That you could depend on your work colleagues to show up and do their jobs so you could do yours? That sales would percolate and products get shipped…