Business & Life Patterns

Unmasking the Illusion: The Pitfalls of Quick Fixes in Executive and Life Coaching

By Sylvia Lafair | February 14, 2024 | Comments Off on Unmasking the Illusion: The Pitfalls of Quick Fixes in Executive and Life Coaching

Summary: The demand for quick solutions and instant gratification is more prevalent than ever. While the promise of simple answers and rapid results may seem appealing, a closer look reveals a lack of lasting impact in many coaching approaches. Here’s why they often fail to create sustainable, transformative change. Dear Dr. Sylvia, Over the years,…

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Wired Connections: Drawing Parallels Between Power Grids in Electricity and Human Relationships

By Sylvia Lafair | January 18, 2024 | Comments Off on Wired Connections: Drawing Parallels Between Power Grids in Electricity and Human Relationships

Summary: Just as electricity powers our modern lives through intricate networks, human relationships form a dynamic grid that sustains our social fabric. Let’s explore the fascinating parallels between the power grid in electricity and the complex web of connections that bind us as humans. Dear Dr. Sylvia, The other day, we had a blackout in…

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A Symphony of Love and Resilience: Reviewing the American Symphony with Jon Batiste and Sulieka Jaouad

By Sylvia Lafair | January 8, 2024 | Comments Off on A Symphony of Love and Resilience: Reviewing the American Symphony with Jon Batiste and Sulieka Jaouad

Dear All, I have watched American Symphony three times. This is so not in my nature. I am more of a rolling stone that gathers no moss. However, in these days of guns and grit, I found this documentary to be a powerful oasis. It is full of conflicting emotions, real emotions that touch the…

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Bridge Builders: Connecting Generations in Leadership for a Stronger Tomorrow

By Sylvia Lafair | December 4, 2023 | Comments Off on Bridge Builders: Connecting Generations in Leadership for a Stronger Tomorrow

Summary: The synergy between different generations fosters innovation, growth, and sustained success. Let’s explore the role of “Bridge Builders” — individuals who actively work to connect generations in leadership, creating a dynamic and inclusive environment that benefits everyone involved. Dear Dr. Sylvia, Why do older people at work talk so much? They go on and…

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How The Art of Pattern Recognition Increases the Bottom Line

By Sylvia Lafair | October 16, 2023 | Comments Off on How The Art of Pattern Recognition Increases the Bottom Line

Summary: At the heart of “Systems Thinking” lies the art of pattern recognition. Let’s explore its secrets through two captivating stories of individuals who harnessed the power of pattern recognition to achieve remarkable success. Dear Dr. Sylvia, “I agree!” “To what?” you ask. “To the fact that patterns will repeat and repeat unless you take…

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Discover the Intriguing Link Between Elon Musk’s Twitter Activity and His Family Legacy

By Sylvia Lafair | October 11, 2023 | Comments Off on Discover the Intriguing Link Between Elon Musk’s Twitter Activity and His Family Legacy

Summary: The connection between Elon Musk’s actions on Twitter and his family history is fascinating. Here, we delve into the captivating tale of his maternal grandfather, who embraced the symbol “X” in his life. It is no accident that Twitter is now X. As you read, you may uncover a newfound perspective on your own…

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The Power of Patterns: How to Unlock The Power and Potential for Growth and Development

By Sylvia Lafair | July 6, 2023 | Comments Off on The Power of Patterns: How to Unlock The Power and Potential for Growth and Development

Summary: How can you, as a leader, navigate through challenges and foster growth and development? How to let go of anxiety and burnout? The answer lies in understanding and harnessing the power of patterns. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I have been researching why so many of us repeat and repeat what we do, whether it works or…

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Break FREE From Negative Biases To Make Better Decisions

By Sylvia Lafair | May 19, 2023 | Comments Off on Break FREE From Negative Biases To Make Better Decisions

Summary: Here are ways to decide the best practices for you and your company to let go of old, outdated decision-making methods. Dear Dr. Sylvia, We must find more effective ways to make decisions that will not backfire months or years later. Therefore, please give some specific ideas so companies can manage better ways to…

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The Cost of Stress: How Leaders Can Stay Resilient

By Sylvia Lafair | April 20, 2023 | Comments Off on The Cost of Stress: How Leaders Can Stay Resilient

Summary: As leaders, it is essential to take care of yourselves so that you can take care of your team and your customers. Here are some tips and strategies to help you manage stress and lead your team effectively. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I just read that stress in the workplace is a billion-dollar problem. Not…

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Educators and Parents: How to Prepare High School Students for Adulthood

By Sylvia Lafair | April 10, 2023 | Comments Off on Educators and Parents: How to Prepare High School Students for Adulthood

Summary: What is missing in preparing today’s students for life challenges? They want “people skills,” and it would benefit us to teach them skills to be better adults. Dear Dr. Sylvia, As a large urban high school principal, I appreciate your time with my leadership team. Furthermore, I did what you suggested. I surveyed the…

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