Growth

How to Stop Stress: Step From Self-doubt to Self -aware and finally to Self-confident

By Sylvia Lafair | January 20, 2025 |

Summary: Stress is a multifaceted and annoying creature. One of the deepest holes to dig out of is self-doubt. Yes, it takes a willingness to look inside yourself for the why and the where that feeling of not being good enough began. Here are some thoughts on taming your own stress monster. Dear Dr. Sylvia…

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How Fires, Floods, and Wars Impact “Safe Zones”

By Sylvia Lafair | January 16, 2025 |

The Illusions of Safety: How Fires, Floods, and Wars Impact the Daily Lives of Those in “Safe Zones” Summary: No one is truly untouched in a world increasingly defined by its challenges—climate change, wildfires, droughts, and conflicts. While some regions experience these crises firsthand, others may seem to exist in “safe zones.” Yet, the ripple…

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Facing Irrevocable Change and Navigating Tough Times

By Sylvia Lafair | January 13, 2025 |

Summary: Change, of course, is an inevitable part of life, but some changes hit us harder than others. These are the seismic shifts—the ones that feel irrevocable, reshaping the foundation of our world. Whether it’s losing a loved one, a significant career upheaval, or moments being caught in the extremes of climate change, that’s when…

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How to Be Your Best Self in 2025: Don’t Waste Your New Year Resolutions

By Sylvia Lafair | December 30, 2024 | Comments Off on How to Be Your Best Self in 2025: Don’t Waste Your New Year Resolutions

Summary: Ah, the New Year. The time when we all gather ‘round and try to figure out how we will turn into superheroes overnight. You know, with those resolutions that promise to transform us into versions of ourselves that could probably bench-press a car and perform ballet in our sleep. But here’s a thought: what…

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The Importance of Presence Over Presents

By Sylvia Lafair | December 24, 2024 | Comments Off on The Importance of Presence Over Presents

Summary: It’s easy to equate showing love and appreciation with giving physical gifts. Presents can be thoughtful and meaningful. However, something far more valuable cannot be wrapped or tied with a bow: your presence. Here are some things to think about. Dear Dr. Sylvia, When all the “oooh’s and ahhha’s” after unwrapping the special gifts…

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From Glimmer to Glow: How the path to flow state transforms your life

By Sylvia Lafair | December 19, 2024 | Comments Off on From Glimmer to Glow: How the path to flow state transforms your life

Dear Dr. Sylvia, I know this sounds delusional. However, I want to change my career. I want to make the shift now. Let me explain. I am a lawyer and work in a prestigeous law firm. Hiwever, the dream to be a lawyer was my father’s desire for me. I was such a “good child”…

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Climbing the Mountain Within: My Journey on The Inca Trail to Machu Picchu

By Sylvia Lafair | November 12, 2024 | Comments Off on Climbing the Mountain Within: My Journey on The Inca Trail to Machu Picchu

Summary: Here is an excerpt from my book “GLIMMERS TO GREATNESS: How Head, Heart, and GUT Guide YOU to WIN.” I hope this helps you see another way to look at what matters in your very precious life. Here is my journey to Machu Picchu. Dear All, This is a departure from my usual online…

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When Leaders Tear Up: The Glimmer of Power and Positivity Behind Tears at Work

By Sylvia Lafair | July 25, 2024 | Comments Off on When Leaders Tear Up: The Glimmer of Power and Positivity Behind Tears at Work

Summary: Leaders don’t cry! They are strong and brave. In the world of leadership, displaying emotions, particularly tears, can seem like a sign of weakness. However, recent trends and studies suggest otherwise. When leaders tear up or cry about a difficult work situation, it can demonstrate strength, empathy, and authenticity. Let’s delve into understanding that…

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The In-Between Generation: Essential Tools for 18- 24 Year Olds Transitioning into Adult Life

By Sylvia Lafair | July 17, 2024 | Comments Off on The In-Between Generation: Essential Tools for 18- 24 Year Olds Transitioning into Adult Life

Summary: The journey from adolescence to adulthood is a challenging and transformative period for individuals aged 18 to 24, often referred to as the “In-Between Generation.” During this stage, young adults face numerous transitions and responsibilities for which they might not be fully prepared. Dear Dr Sylvia, My son is going into his senior year…

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Unlock Freedom: Embrace the Hero’s Journey

By Sylvia Lafair | July 2, 2024 | Comments Off on Unlock Freedom: Embrace the Hero’s Journey

Summary: The hero’s journey, a narrative framework popularized by Joseph Campbell, is more than just a storytelling tool. It is a blueprint for personal transformation and freedom. By viewing our lives through the lens of the hero’s journey, we can find purpose, overcome obstacles, and achieve a profound sense of freedom. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I…

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