Patterns

Fathers, Sons and The Power of Acknowledgement

By Sylvia Lafair | June 13, 2024 | Comments Off on Fathers, Sons and The Power of Acknowledgement

Summary: This is in honor of Father’s Day. It explores how men help boys grow to be the best they can be. It’s never too late to use the power of acknowledgment. Then, father-son relationships become a solid base for health and well-being. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I have heard you say many times that women…

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Fatal Flaws Are Patterns That Keep Us Stuck in Childhood Muck

By Sylvia Lafair | June 4, 2024 | Comments Off on Fatal Flaws Are Patterns That Keep Us Stuck in Childhood Muck

Summary: Childhood is a critical period of development where individuals learn and internalize behaviors, beliefs, and coping mechanisms. These early experiences significantly shape our adult personalities. This includes the fatal flaws that may hinder our success and happiness. A fatal flaw is a character defect that leads to significant challenges or failures in life. Understanding…

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Invisible Loyalties: Why Generational Patterns Continue Over and Over

By Sylvia Lafair | October 31, 2023 | Comments Off on Invisible Loyalties: Why Generational Patterns Continue Over and Over

Summary: Generational issues have been an enduring facet of human society, seemingly immortal in their persistence. Time and again, we see rifts between generations, each believing their perspective is superior, their values paramount. To explore why these issues don’t go away, we’ll delve into the depths of human nature, psychological underpinnings, and cultural shifts. Dear…

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Connecting the Dots: From Family Wounds and Workplace Woes to Professional Success

By Sylvia Lafair | July 17, 2023 | Comments Off on Connecting the Dots: From Family Wounds and Workplace Woes to Professional Success

Summary: Many top leadership experts now acknowledge how family patterns appear at work. Here is what some respected educators are saying to help you see the connection from the past to the present. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I want to bring you and your team into our company for leadership training as part of our mental…

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Unleash the Power of Patterns: A Revolutionary Approach to Unleashing Collaboration

By Sylvia Lafair | July 10, 2023 | Comments Off on Unleash the Power of Patterns: A Revolutionary Approach to Unleashing Collaboration

Summary: This is a great time to learn and absorb new concepts about relationships at work. Now you can prepare for third and fourth-quarter success without excessive stress. Summer discounts are available. Dear Dr. Sylvia, My team and I are ready to tackle the relationship side of working together this summer. Since it is already…

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The Power of Patterns: How to Unlock The Power and Potential for Growth and Development

By Sylvia Lafair | July 6, 2023 | Comments Off on The Power of Patterns: How to Unlock The Power and Potential for Growth and Development

Summary: How can you, as a leader, navigate through challenges and foster growth and development? How to let go of anxiety and burnout? The answer lies in understanding and harnessing the power of patterns. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I have been researching why so many of us repeat and repeat what we do, whether it works or…

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A Tale of Two Generations: Impact of Author Ernest Hemingway’s Childhood on His Transgender Son

By Sylvia Lafair | June 6, 2023 | Comments Off on A Tale of Two Generations: Impact of Author Ernest Hemingway’s Childhood on His Transgender Son

Summary: Mental health is part of the business world for all leaders to consider at work. Pride Month offers a time to look at this complex topic through the life of Ernest Hemingway. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I am struggling with a senior VP who announced he is becoming a she. “They,” asked how that would…

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During Layoffs Here’s How Leaders Can Be “Pattern Pioneers” For Long-Term Success

By Sylvia Lafair | February 15, 2023 | Comments Off on During Layoffs Here’s How Leaders Can Be “Pattern Pioneers” For Long-Term Success

Summary: Pioneers are typically free-thinking, adventurous, spontaneous, and highly creative. Leaders who sort out the difference between a work problem and an ongoing work pattern can lead their companies to long-term success. Dear Dr. Sylvia, My organization is going through the pain of layoffs. I know we are not alone here. However, that does not lessen…

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Leadership Lessons: How Professionals Use The Stories You Tell Yourselves for Success

By Sylvia Lafair | November 21, 2022 | Comments Off on Leadership Lessons: How Professionals Use The Stories You Tell Yourselves for Success

Summary: When stress hits the hot button, there is often a downward spiral. What you say to yourself causes stress to spike even more. Here’s what to do to prevent a meltdown. Every career has its struggles. We all know that! However, when the negative outweighs the positive, it becomes a trap. What kind of…

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Guess Which 3 Professions Top The Extreme Stress Scale? (Hint: Lawyers are #2).

By Sylvia Lafair | November 14, 2022 | Comments Off on Guess Which 3 Professions Top The Extreme Stress Scale? (Hint: Lawyers are #2).

Summary: The pandemic showed us where weak spots cause extreme stress and burnout. Here is what to do to recharge your batteries and have less stress. You and I know everyone has a rough day or two or three. That’s when you tell yourself it’s time to take a break, eat a favorite food, and…

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