Posts Tagged ‘leadership development’
Hire Slowly. Fire Quickly. But Never Lead Impulsively.
Summary: What your hiring and firing decisions tell your team about trust, stability, and the kind of leader you really are. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I have made some dreadful mistakes with our last two hires. Yes, they sounded great in the interviews and answered questions with a flair. However, after only a few months on…
Read MoreThe Old Corporate Ladder Is Cracking. Are You Ready for What Comes Next?
Summary: Canva CEO Melanie Perkins challenges traditional leadership by showing how collaboration, empowerment, and innovation are reshaping success. As AI transforms the workplace, leaders must rethink old patterns and focus on building bridges rather than climbing the corporate ladder. Keep reading to discover what today’s leaders can learn from this shift. For decades, the corporate…
Read MoreThe Most Dangerous Words a Leader Can Say: “I’ve Got This”
Summary: Why tomorrow’s best leaders will stop pretending they have all the answers—and how to move forward. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I am a leader who thought I had most of the answers for my staff. After 25 years at the helm of a very successful retail business, I am now stuck for solutions. Every day,…
Read MoreHealthy Boundaries: The Leadership Skill Nobody Teaches You
Summary: We often think of boundaries as walls that we put up when we’re angry, hurt, or trying to keep someone out. But healthy boundaries are not about rejection. They are about clarity. When attempting to break an old pattern, clarity can be uncomfortable, especially when the person on the other side is someone you…
Read MoreLeaders Initiative: What If Polarized Times Are the Beginning of a New Renaissance?
Summary: It’s easy to look at the world right now and only see division. Political polarization. Wars. Cultural battles. Anxiety about artificial intelligence. Generations arguing over what matters most. People choosing sides before they’ve even finished listening to each other. We keep asking, “How did things get this bad?” I wonder if there is another…
Read MoreYou Change Your Underwear Every Day, So Why Are You Still Wearing the Same Old Patterns?
Summary: Let’s start with a question that you don’t get asked often, if ever: When was the last time you changed your underwear? Hopefully, this morning. Most of us wouldn’t dream of wearing the same underwear day after day. We also replace worn-out socks, buy new shoes, upgrade our phones, and trade in cars that…
Read MoreStop Calling People Toxic. Start Looking for the Patterns.
Summary: We hear these phrases everywhere. “She’s toxic.” “He’s impossible.” “Stay away from people like that.” Social media is overflowing with advice about identifying toxic people, avoiding toxic relationships, and eliminating toxic employees. Sometimes that advice is necessary. Abuse, manipulation, and repeated harmful behavior should never be ignored or tolerated. But what if the label…
Read MoreWhen Great Leaders Cry: What Lionel Messi Taught the World About Leadership
Summary: Millions of people around the world watched Lionel Messi walk off the field after Argentina’s heartbreaking 1-0 extra-time loss to Spain in the World Cup Final. For just a moment, the cameras caught something that statistics never can. A tear rolled down his cheek, and that single tear may become one of the most…
Read MorePattern Intelligence: The Leadership Skill Abraham Lincoln Used Before There Was a Name For It
Summary: Why do some leaders keep solving the same problems over and over while others seem able to transform an entire culture? The difference is often not intelligence, but pattern intelligence, or the ability to notice the invisible dynamics beneath visible behavior. It means recognizing recurring emotional, relational, and organizational patterns before they become crises.…
Read MoreWhen a Glimmer Becomes a New Beginning
Summary: Most breakthroughs don’t begin with a grand plan. They begin with one small moment of awareness, a GLIMMER. Discover how curiosity transformed one executive coach into a jewelry designer and how your next chapter may already be waiting for you. “Sometimes the smallest spark changes the direction of an entire life.” —Sylvia Lafair Most…
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