Archive for December 2017
Let’s vision 2018 as a year of hope
Here is my wish for you, for all of us, as we get ready to release the old and ring in the new. Would you say its been a roller coaster year? It’s hard to process all the political dramas, climate challenges with hurricanes and fires, terrorist attacks, sexual harassment allegations, along with the usual…
Read MoreIf you’re a rescuer, it’s time for a change
If you (or someone you know is) are a rescuer, it’s time for a change. STOP! Relax. Just chill. Don’t do anything. Take care of yourself and forget about helping others. Take a break from saving the world. If these words bring a big sigh coming all the way up from your gut you’re listening…
Read MoreHow to Transform the Victim into the Explorer
Have you noticed that the more persecutor/bullies lash out the more the victims of their nastiness go to hide under the bedcovers? I don’t often feel like a victim. However, I had an employee who was the bossiest witch, always telling everyone in the office what to do, on her terms. One day, I hung…
Read MoreHow to effectively say “No More” to the persecutor
Summary: Here’s how the Persecutor (aka bully) stays in charge until someone (as in you) or (as in me) says STOP. Dear Dr. Sylvia, This is short and to the point. My boss makes us all miserable. He always see the negative and makes sure he tells us what is wrong with our work. I…
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