Summary: The journey from adolescence to adulthood is a challenging and transformative period for individuals aged 18 to 24, often referred to as the “In-Between Generation.” During this stage, young adults face numerous transitions and responsibilities for which they might not be fully prepared.
Dear Dr Sylvia,
My son is going into his senior year in college. He does well, has lots of friends, and yet has no idea what he wants to do with his adult life.
I have been frustrated with our educational system. While he does well in math and science, and can do online gambling like a champ, I wonder what the young people need to learn they are not being taught in school.
Signed,
Concerned Father
Dear Concerned Father,
I hear this type of comment from so many parent. And from so many employers.
The concern is that social media is the only place they learn life skills, and most are either negative, polarizing or just plain silly.
I am working on a short book for “The In-Betweeners” to give tools to transfer into adult life.
Here are some areas that need tending:
Financial literacy is a must for all
1. Budgeting and Saving
Understanding how to manage money is fundamental for young adults. Unfortunately, high school curriculums often do not cover practical financial skills. Learning how to create and stick to a budget, the importance of saving, and understanding different types of bank accounts are crucial.
2. Credit and Loans
Many young adults are unaware of how credit works and the impact of credit scores on their financial future. It’s essential to understand how to build and maintain good credit, the implications of taking out loans, and the importance of paying bills on time.
3. Investing Basics
Investing can seem intimidating, but starting early can significantly impact long-term financial stability. Young adults should learn the basics of stocks, bonds, mutual funds, and retirement accounts like 401(k)s and IRAs.
Career development should begin in high school
1. Resume Building and Job Applications
Creating an effective resume and understanding the nuances of job applications are vital skills. This includes tailoring resumes for different job opportunities, writing compelling cover letters, and preparing for job interviews.
2. Networking
Building a professional network can open many doors in a young adult’s career. Learning how to network effectively, both in person and through platforms like LinkedIn, is essential for career growth.
3. Professional Etiquette
Understanding workplace norms and professional etiquette is crucial for success. This includes communication skills, time management, and understanding corporate culture.
Life skills are required for all adults
1. Cooking and Nutrition
Basic cooking skills and knowledge about nutrition are often overlooked but are essential for maintaining a healthy lifestyle. Young adults should know how to prepare simple, nutritious meals and understand the basics of a balanced diet.
2. Household Management
Managing a household involves various skills, from cleaning and organizing to basic home repairs. Knowing how to handle these tasks can save time and money and reduce stress.
3. Body health
Knowing what makes the body respond in a positive way. This includes the newest nutrition and exercise. It also includes areas like walking in nature to stay clam, and meditating to see beyond the obvious.
Personal Development
1. Mental Health Awareness
Understanding mental health and knowing when and how to seek help is critical. High schools often neglect this aspect of personal development. Young adults should be aware of stress management techniques, the importance of work-life balance, and resources available for mental health support.
2. Goal Setting and Time Management
Effective goal setting and time management are essential for achieving personal and professional success. Learning how to set SMART (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound) goals and prioritize tasks can significantly impact productivity and overall well-being.
3. Communication skills
There are styles of communication that will benefit and those that harm. Making fun of people and giving negative nicknames is not funny, it is detrimental.
The In-Between Generation faces numerous challenges as they transition into adulthood.
In conclusion, equipping them with essential life skills and knowledge that high school and higher education often overlooks can significantly impact their well-being to lead productive lives.
To your success,
Sylvia Lafair
PS. Help the “In betweeners” learn to harness the power of good stress (eustress), and become the healthiest version of themselves. Get a free intro to my book “Invisible Stress” at www.ceoptions.com.
