Human Connection

The GLIMMERS Glow™: What Happens When Self-Awareness Becomes Contagious

By Sylvia Lafair | June 16, 2026 |

Summary: Most leadership programs teach skills, like how to communicate better, manage conflict, and improve engagement. All are worthwhile goals, but after more than 35 years working with leaders and organizations, I’ve learned something important—skills alone do not transform culture. Read on to see what matters even more. Dear Dr. Sylvia, My team is efficient…

The More AI We Have, The More Human We Must Become

By Sylvia Lafair | June 9, 2026 |

Summary: Everyone is talking about AI—how fast it is, how powerful it is, and how much work it can do. Some people are excited by it, while others are terrified. Most are trying to figure out where they fit into a future that seems to be changing by the minute. But I think we may…

Leadership Under Pressure: What Early Shock and Loss Taught Stephen Colbert About Endings

By Sylvia Lafair | May 28, 2026 |

Summary: Leadership is often misunderstood. Many assume great leaders are defined by confidence, charisma, or authority. Yet some of the most powerful leaders are shaped by something far less glamorous: pain, loss, shock, and what they choose to do with it. Here is a “hats off” tribute to Stephen Colbert as he redirects his career.…

Why “Nice” Leaders Often Create Resentment: A GLIMMERS Effect™ Perspective

By Sylvia Lafair | May 26, 2026 |

Summary: Leadership is often misunderstood. Many people assume that if a leader is nice, as in pleasant, agreeable, generous, and always trying to keep the peace, they are automatically effective. Not always. In fact, some of the most quietly frustrating workplaces are led by nice leaders. Let’s take a closer look at how this behavior…

Jean Houston, Leadership, and the Doorway to Possibility: How One Mentor Helped Shape The GLIMMERS Effect™

By Sylvia Lafair | May 21, 2026 |

Summary: When a mentor who made a difference transitions, it prompts reflection on the core of how life has changed. The words from the song “Wicked” have been quietly ringing in my ears. For Jean Houston, “knowing you has changed me for the better.” Change Happens in Unexpected Ways “Something is wrong here.” That was…

Family, Culture, Crisis: The Three Forces Quietly Running Your Life and Leadership

By Sylvia Lafair | May 18, 2026 |

Summary: There are moments in life when everything feels uncertain. Your company restructures. Perhaps your marriage cracks or your child pulls away. War begins, or the market collapses. You may get a difficult health diagnosis. A fire burns through your town. An election divides a family. AI changes how people work overnight. And suddenly, what…

Ted Turner, Restless Energy, and the Leadership Glimmers That Changed the World

By Sylvia Lafair | May 15, 2026 |

Summary: Many years ago, I attended a conference focused on one enormous question: What do we need to do to make the planet healthier and more humane? The room itself felt electric. Among the dignitaries were John Denver, Ram Dass, and Ted Turner. To say Ted Turner commanded attention would be an understatement. He was…

What Anna Wintour Teaches Us About The GLIMMERS Effect

By Sylvia Lafair | May 7, 2026 |

Summary: Most people look at Anna Wintour and see the sunglasses, the precision, the intimidating reputation, and the legendary standards. I see something else: a leader who understands the power of GLIMMERS. While others focus on fashion, status, and spectacle, I see a deeper lesson about clarity, courage, and the quiet signals that shape extraordinary…

The GLIMMERS EFFECT: Reawakening Clarity, Courage, and Connection in a World Fueled by Fear

By Sylvia Lafair | May 5, 2026 |

Summary: Everywhere we turn, there’s noise, uncertainty, division, and pressure to perform. A constant low hum of anxiety that never quite shuts off. Leaders feel it. Teams feel it. Organizations live inside it. And here’s the uncomfortable truth: most leadership tools today are designed to help people cope with chaos, not transform it. Let’s go…

Leadership Under Fire: What Clarissa Ward Can Teach Every Leader About Courage and Calm

By Sylvia Lafair | April 30, 2026 |

Summary: Most people think leadership is tested in team meetings, boardrooms, and strategy sessions. Sometimes it is. But the deepest truths about leadership often show up when the stakes are high, emotions are raw, and no script exists. That is when we see underneath the charisma and charm. Here is a great example of positive…