Archive for February 2023
Salon Speak: Small Talk, Deep Talk, or No Talk, Which is Best?
Summary: Every time a client sits in your chair and faces the mirror with you standing behind, a choice occurs. Chat, joke, get personal, or “let it be.” How do you know what the best idea is? First, think about what you, the stylist, prefer when it’s your turn to sit in the chair rather…
Read MoreHow to Banish the GOTCHA GAME at Work
Summary: Love it or hate it; it won’t go away. Not those extra 10 pounds! I’m talking about conflict. Those annoying times when you are at odds with someone when you are pissed off with a client, supplier, staff, or even your best friend. Dear Dr. Sylvia, Is it me? Or is the world becoming…
Read MoreHere’s How Educators Can Stop Excessive Conflict in Schools
Summary: In every work setting, especially in schools, there is a time when individuals throw up their hands and ask, “Why can’t we all just get along!” Here are tools and techniques that answer this question and create a more efficient, collaborative culture for educators. Dear Dr. Sylvia. Why does conflict run rampant in today’s…
Read MoreDuring Layoffs Here’s How Leaders Can Be “Pattern Pioneers” For Long-Term Success
Summary: Pioneers are typically free-thinking, adventurous, spontaneous, and highly creative. Leaders who sort out the difference between a work problem and an ongoing work pattern can lead their companies to long-term success. Dear Dr. Sylvia, My organization is going through the pain of layoffs. I know we are not alone here. However, that does not lessen…
Read MoreGive the Gift of a Healthy Laugh This Valentine’s Day
Summary: Roses, chocolate, and Hallmark cards have always been the standards to express love for someone special. Here’s a way that is inexpensive and has a lasting impact. Want to give your honey a great gift for Valentine’s Day? One that is virtually cost-free and has a super health benefit? At the same time, it’s…
Read MoreWhat Smart Leaders Learn From The Super Bowl
Summary: Watching the Super Bowl, cheerin’g for your favorite team, snacking, and connecting with friends can be fun. Also, pay attention to what you learn even if you never have to tackle an opponent to the ground. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I know it is popular to have a business coach these days. That, so they…
Read MorePeace Tools NOT Pistols: In Honor of Tyre Nichols, (1993-2023)
Summary: Is there such a thing as a “peace tool?” Read on and see how you can help turn the tide of our divided world. No matter your physical, economic, or intellectual status, there is room for you to participate. Peace tools are waiting for you to claim them. Dear All, Tyre Nichols was killed…
Read MoreLeadership Tips: Here are 2 Words To Avoid At Work, at Home, and Everywhere
Summary: Words are powerful. Some can lead you to success. Others will get in the way and keep you stuck in old, outdated behavior patterns. Be careful of the two vital words discussed here. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I resolved to communicate more effectively this year. Time is moving quickly, and I still feel I will…
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