Summary: Whether it’s bad news or the challenges of everyday life, negativity can seep into our minds and workplaces. This impacts morale, productivity, and overall well-being. However, amidst the darkness, there are beacons of light. Leaders who possess the vision, empathy, and determination to foster positivity drive change. Be a beacon!
Dear Dr. Sylvia,
I remember watching a powerful video when I was in your Total Leadership Connections program.
It was a song with opera star Luciano Pavarotti and pop star Lionel Richie singing together. An unusual combination and very moving.
The words have remained with me and I hear them in my mind more and more these very disjointed days.
“When the world is filled with thunder and the winds are storming above
Deep within the night we wonder if we’ve lost the magic of love
But there’s something inside us that looks to the sun
We dream that this light will guide us with love for everyone”
I want you to know that now I am the President of my company (thanks to your coaching help).
Thus, I decided to start our recent offsite with the song.
Admittedly, I was not sure it would make a difference. We are a smart, tech company and emotions are often kept way under the surface.
However, there are lots of conflicts that had to be discussed. I was concerned the exec team would think the song was “fluffy” and insignificant.
Leaders who take risks can get big rewards
In any case, I took the risk .
For example, we began the two day program by playing “The Magic of Love.”
Afterwards, we got right into our business issues.
Moreover, I thought you would appreciate that of course we still had to dig into what was holding us back. Yet, there was a more harmonious tone to the debates.
I hope others reading this will find a special song, poem, or saying to start meetings.
Yes, it is risky.
However, it’s worth it.
Sometimes we can get to new and better ways of working together with a slight redirect.
In addition, rather than going straight to the negative issues, we can take a moment to connect together.
Signed,
Peaceful Warrior
Often an indirect approach will bring better result
Dear Peaceful Warrior,
Firstly, thank you for the acknowledgement. It means the world to me.
Here are my recent thoughts about taking unusual risks at work to bring people together.
Embrace a Positive Mindset
Most importantly, at the heart of breaking through negativity lies the power of mindset. Leaders who cultivate a positive outlook inspire their teams.
In fact, they also create an environment where challenges are viewed as opportunities for growth.
By aligning values with business goals, leaders foster a culture of optimism and purpose among employees, driving innovation and impact.
Foster a Culture of Openness and Support
In a world where uncertainty often breeds fear and distrust, leaders who prioritize transparency and support can help dispel negativity and build trust within their teams.
Companies that value employee feedback and address concerns head-on, demonstrate a commitment to constantly develop a positive and inclusive workplace culture.
Lead by Example
Perhaps the most powerful way leaders can break through negativity is by leading by example.
For example, when leaders embody the values they espouse and demonstrate resilience in the face of adversity. They inspire others to do the same. By prioritizing empathy, inclusion, and continuous learning, you can create a culture and for long-term success.
Leaders who are willing to risk can produce positive results
In conclusion, where negativity often seems pervasive, leaders have a crucial role to play in fostering positivity and driving change.
Embrace a positive mindset. This fosters a culture of openness and support. Then you lead by example. Leaders can break through the clouds of negativity and inspire their teams to achieve greatness.
Finally, together, let us strive to create workplaces where positivity reigns supreme, and where every voice is heard and valued.
To your success,
Sylvia Lafair
PS. Here is a list of some songs to choose from to start your next offsite. These songs, serve as reminders that there is always hope, joy, and positivity to be found.
Look for motivation, inspiration, or simply a reason to smile.
These tunes lift your spirits and brighten your day.
- “Don’t Worry, Be Happy” by Bobby McFerrin (1988). This iconic song is all about letting go of worries and embracing happiness in life.
- “Here Comes the Sun” by The Beatles (1969. A timeless classic that celebrates the arrival of brighter days and a hopeful future.
- “Happy” by Pharrell Williams (2013). With its infectious beat and uplifting lyrics, this song encourages listeners to find joy in life’s simple pleasures.
- “What a Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong (1967). A beautiful ode to the beauty of the world and the wonders that surround us every day.
- “Happy” by Marina (2021). This catchy pop song celebrates the simple joys of life and encourages listeners to find happiness in the little things.
- “Golden” by Harry Styles (2019). “Golden” is a feel-good anthem about embracing change and living life to the fullest.
These songs, span different genres and eras. All share a common theme of optimism, resilience, and the belief that brighter days are ahead. These tunes are sure to lift your spirits and remind you of the power of positivity.
PSS. Taylor Swift is known for her diverse range of songs covering various themes and emotions. Some of her tracks focus on a positive outlook on life. Here are a few examples:
- “Shake It Off” (2014). This upbeat pop anthem encourages listeners to brush off negativity and embrace their true selves. With its catchy melody and empowering lyrics, “Shake It Off” promotes self-confidence and resilience.
- “Change” (2008) This is an inspirational song about overcoming obstacles and staying hopeful in the face of adversity. It highlights the importance of resilience and perseverance in pursuing one’s dreams.
- “Long Live” (2010): This celebratory anthem pays homage to friendship, memories, and the moments that shape our lives. “Long Live” encourages listeners to cherish the good times and look forward to the future with optimism.
