Breaking the Mold: Embracing Change at Home and In the Workplace

Summary: In the ever-evolving landscape of life, individuals must recognize and challenge outdated behaviors that hinder personal and collective growth. Too often, people find themselves trapped in a cycle of repetitive actions that stifle creativity, hinder collaboration, and impede progress. It’s time to break free from the chains of outdated habits and embrace change for…

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Systems Thinking and Organizations: The Best Way for Long-Term Success

Summary: In the ever-evolving business landscape, organizations constantly seek ways to optimize operations, adapt to change, and achieve sustainable success. One critical paradigm that has gained prominence recently is “systems thinking.” This holistic approach to problem-solving and decision-making can transform how human beings are successful. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I see you are now all about…

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The Psychology of Hope

Summary: In a world rife with conflict and discord, the quest for peace and hope can seem impossible. Yet, history has shown that profound transformation is possible, and it often begins with the power of collective action and systems thinking. We explore this here. Dear Dr. Sylvia, Shocked and saddened last week. My 19-year-old daughter…

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Invisible Loyalties: Why Generational Patterns Continue Over and Over

Summary: Generational issues have been an enduring facet of human society, seemingly immortal in their persistence. Time and again, we see rifts between generations, each believing their perspective is superior, their values paramount. To explore why these issues don’t go away, we’ll delve into the depths of human nature, psychological underpinnings, and cultural shifts. Dear…

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Vengeance Is Not a Strategy; Here’s What Makes a Difference

Summary: In the annals of history, countless tales of vengeance and retribution have captured our imagination. From ancient feuds to epic battles and cinematic showdowns, the desire for payback has always been a compelling human narrative. Here is what makes the real difference. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I was thinking about you today. I was thinking…

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What We Can Learn From The Dark Psychology of War

Dear All, Today, I, once again, enter the darkness of what is happening in Israel and Palestine. In addition, it brings back memories of a time that seems a million years ago (actually twenty-one). That was when a group of my colleagues and I created The Center for Intercultural Dialogue. We were doing deep work…

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When the Winds of War Are Strong

Summary: Today is meant to be different. It is about today’s world’s pain, hurt, and fear. And one way to make a difference, no matter how small. Dear All, Today is a tough day. Above all, we continue to get more information from the Middle East. It’s mainly about the vast number of humans, from…

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Unlocking Leadership Excellence: A Review of “Don’t Bring It To Work”

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Summary: The way OUT of conflict and failed relationships at work begins with inner clarity. Phrases like emotional intelligence, high-performing team, and innovative leadership emphasize this book’s relevance in the fast-evolving business world. Dear Dr Sylvia, Many of my colleagues love your book, “Don’t Bring It To Work.” I am curious why they tell me…

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Charles Barkley’s Remarkable Revelation: A Leader’s Journey of Forgiveness and Redemption

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Summary: In a candid interview on the CBS 60 Minutes program, legendary NBA player Charles Barkley shared a deeply personal story. Barkley’s emotional journey transformed his perspective on pivotal figures from his past and taught valuable lessons. Here we explore how Barkley’s experience offers profound insights for leaders to harness in their growth and development…

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