Breaking the Mold: Embracing Change at Home and In the Workplace

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Summary: In the ever-evolving landscape of life, individuals must recognize and challenge outdated behaviors that hinder personal and collective growth. Too often, people find themselves trapped in a cycle of repetitive actions that stifle creativity, hinder collaboration, and impede progress. It’s time to break free from the chains of outdated habits and embrace change for…

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Thanksgiving 2023: How to Navigate for a Favorable Time with Family

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Summary: Did you know that Thanksgiving Day is a high-stress time for most people? Think of it this way. Family dynamics can be as diverse as the food on the table. Navigating family interactions during this holiday requires a delicate balance of understanding, communication, and patience. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I need help with the right…

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Systems Thinking and Organizations: The Best Way for Long-Term Success

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Summary: In the ever-evolving business landscape, organizations constantly seek ways to optimize operations, adapt to change, and achieve sustainable success. One critical paradigm that has gained prominence recently is “systems thinking.” This holistic approach to problem-solving and decision-making can transform how human beings are successful. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I see you are now all about…

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The Psychology of Hope

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Summary: In a world rife with conflict and discord, the quest for peace and hope can seem impossible. Yet, history has shown that profound transformation is possible, and it often begins with the power of collective action and systems thinking. We explore this here. Dear Dr. Sylvia, Shocked and saddened last week. My 19-year-old daughter…

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Invisible Loyalties: Why Generational Patterns Continue Over and Over

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Summary: Generational issues have been an enduring facet of human society, seemingly immortal in their persistence. Time and again, we see rifts between generations, each believing their perspective is superior, their values paramount. To explore why these issues don’t go away, we’ll delve into the depths of human nature, psychological underpinnings, and cultural shifts. Dear…

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Game Theory and Conflict: Unraveling the Prisoner’s Dilemma

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Summary: Game theory is a field in mathematics and economics. It has proven to be a valuable tool for understanding complex conflicts and strategic interactions. We apply “The Prisoner’s Dilemma” to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. It sheds light on the challenges and potential solutions in this ongoing struggle for peace. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I know the…

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Vengeance Is Not a Strategy; Here’s What Makes a Difference

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Summary: In the annals of history, countless tales of vengeance and retribution have captured our imagination. From ancient feuds to epic battles and cinematic showdowns, the desire for payback has always been a compelling human narrative. Here is what makes the real difference. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I was thinking about you today. I was thinking…

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How The Art of Pattern Recognition Increases the Bottom Line

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Summary: At the heart of “Systems Thinking” lies the art of pattern recognition. Let’s explore its secrets through two captivating stories of individuals who harnessed the power of pattern recognition to achieve remarkable success. Dear Dr. Sylvia, “I agree!” “To what?” you ask. “To the fact that patterns will repeat and repeat unless you take…

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Systems Thinking in Organizations: The Holistic Wave of the Future

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Summary: In modern businesses, traditional linear approaches to problem-solving and decision-making often fall short. Organizations now turn to a holistic and strategic approach called “systems thinking.” It can lead to improved organizational performance, innovation, and adaptability. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I especially love to learn about how we learn to make decisions. At this point in…

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