Invisible Loyalties: Why Generational Patterns Continue Over and Over

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Summary: Generational issues have been an enduring facet of human society, seemingly immortal in their persistence. Time and again, we see rifts between generations, each believing their perspective is superior, their values paramount. To explore why these issues don’t go away, we’ll delve into the depths of human nature, psychological underpinnings, and cultural shifts. Dear…

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Vengeance Is Not a Strategy; Here’s What Makes a Difference

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Summary: In the annals of history, countless tales of vengeance and retribution have captured our imagination. From ancient feuds to epic battles and cinematic showdowns, the desire for payback has always been a compelling human narrative. Here is what makes the real difference. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I was thinking about you today. I was thinking…

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What We Can Learn From The Dark Psychology of War

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Dear All, Today, I, once again, enter the darkness of what is happening in Israel and Palestine. In addition, it brings back memories of a time that seems a million years ago (actually twenty-one). That was when a group of my colleagues and I created The Center for Intercultural Dialogue. We were doing deep work…

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Charles Barkley’s Remarkable Revelation: A Leader’s Journey of Forgiveness and Redemption

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Summary: In a candid interview on the CBS 60 Minutes program, legendary NBA player Charles Barkley shared a deeply personal story. Barkley’s emotional journey transformed his perspective on pivotal figures from his past and taught valuable lessons. Here we explore how Barkley’s experience offers profound insights for leaders to harness in their growth and development…

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Strategic Advantage: Leading with a Systems Mindset Wins

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Summary: Incorporating systems thinking into leadership teams can help promote an interconnected approach to problem-solving and decision-making. Here are some steps to add methods of thinking to your executive team. Dear Dr. Sylvia, My executive team is beginning to collaborate in new ways. I would appreciate some tools for including systems thinking in our weekly…

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