Posts Tagged ‘communication’
Salon Speak: Small Talk, Deep Talk, or No Talk, Which is Best?
Summary: Every time a client sits in your chair and faces the mirror with you standing behind, a choice occurs. Chat, joke, get personal, or “let it be.” How do you know what the best idea is? First, think about what you, the stylist, prefer when it’s your turn to sit in the chair rather…
Read MoreHow to Banish the GOTCHA GAME at Work
Summary: Love it or hate it; it won’t go away. Not those extra 10 pounds! I’m talking about conflict. Those annoying times when you are at odds with someone when you are pissed off with a client, supplier, staff, or even your best friend. Dear Dr. Sylvia, Is it me? Or is the world becoming…
Read MoreHere’s How Educators Can Stop Excessive Conflict in Schools
Summary: In every work setting, especially in schools, there is a time when individuals throw up their hands and ask, “Why can’t we all just get along!” Here are tools and techniques that answer this question and create a more efficient, collaborative culture for educators. Dear Dr. Sylvia. Why does conflict run rampant in today’s…
Read MoreGive the Gift of a Healthy Laugh This Valentine’s Day
Summary: Roses, chocolate, and Hallmark cards have always been the standards to express love for someone special. Here’s a way that is inexpensive and has a lasting impact. Want to give your honey a great gift for Valentine’s Day? One that is virtually cost-free and has a super health benefit? At the same time, it’s…
Read MorePeace Tools NOT Pistols: In Honor of Tyre Nichols, (1993-2023)
Summary: Is there such a thing as a “peace tool?” Read on and see how you can help turn the tide of our divided world. No matter your physical, economic, or intellectual status, there is room for you to participate. Peace tools are waiting for you to claim them. Dear All, Tyre Nichols was killed…
Read MoreLeadership Tips: Here are 2 Words To Avoid At Work, at Home, and Everywhere
Summary: Words are powerful. Some can lead you to success. Others will get in the way and keep you stuck in old, outdated behavior patterns. Be careful of the two vital words discussed here. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I resolved to communicate more effectively this year. Time is moving quickly, and I still feel I will…
Read MoreLeadership Lessons: Telling the Truth Is NOT Spilling Your GUTS
Summary: Truth and freedom are roommates who depend on each other to help us live fully engaged and positive lives. Here are ways to investigate the power of truth. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I recently read excerpts from “The Spare “by Prince Harry, and all I could think of was a line from Stephen Sondheim’s powerful…
Read MoreLeadership Lessons: What Matters When You Tell The Truth
Summary: In this era of social media excess, where everyone can offer their version of what is truth without fact-checking, it’s time for critical thinking to stop the dysfunction of speaking without considering the consequences of our words. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I have a question for you. Question: How many business coaches does it take…
Read MoreThe Future of Work Means Choosing Dialogue Over Debate. Here’s What To Consider.
Summary: We are in new territory in the world of work. It’s time to take advantage of the opportunities gained by collaborating rather than condemning. Dear Dr. Sylvia, I am having a retreat with my senior staff to discuss the future of work. I know you believe in leadership programs for everyone. I’m not sure…
Read MoreTime to Talk Truth to Power: Here’s What To Do
Summary: Learn how to speak up and be heard by someone in power. The “Four B’s” make it a slam dunk every time. Dear Dr. Sylvia, Did you ever think there would be a big push to consider employees’ mental health at work? Don’t get me wrong. I know it is essential to bring, as…
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